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How to behave on the first date?
Many people are worried before the first date, because each of us wants to like it and make the best impression. Some even come up with topics in advance that they will talk about, carefully select the image, and the place where the date should take place.
And yet there should not be too many "blanks" before a date. After all, it is important to remain spontaneous and sincere. And how is this possible if there are a lot of instructions and restrictions in your head?
For example, one girl on a date in a restaurant was constantly silent and sat taut as a string, from which she had a tense expression on her face. The young man tried to get her to talk, but she answered in monosyllables, "yes" or "no". And all because she was too afraid not to like it, to say something superfluous! As you understand, that date was the first and the last. But if the girl wasn't worried about what impression she would make, then this couple could talk enthusiastically, enjoying each other's company. It's not a fact that their relationship would have continued, but this meeting could have left pleasant memories for both.
Many of us like to embellish our lives when we tell a new person about ourselves. For example, they say that they love the theater, while they are there at most once a year. Or they say that they like to train, although they get out to the gym once every 2 weeks without pleasure. Before you start talking about yourself, remember 3 important things:
Sincerity gives charm, and falsehood repels. A person who lives an ordinary life and cannot boast of great achievements is much more interesting than someone who is ashamed of himself.
You are chosen not for what you tell about yourself, but for what kind of feeling the person next to you will have. You've probably noticed that people reach out to you when you're happy. So don't worry - you won't be judged for not being very fond of theater, reading and sports, if you really liked it.
If you still manage to interest a person with a false impression of yourself, then what will you do with this relationship next? It's one thing to pretend for one evening, and another to pretend for years. It's better to break up after the first date than after several years of marriage to realize that you are different people.